After going through a divorce, I found myself at a crossroads, trying to figure out how to start over and start healing. I came upon the idea of sustainable living throughout my search. Although it wasn’t the answer I had anticipated, it ended up being how I could change my well-being from the inside out. … Read more
Deciding whether to end a marriage can be challenging and stressful. You may find yourself wondering about two common options: divorce vs annulment. Each option has its own legal implications, which can greatly affect your life moving forward. It’s vital to know their differences. It helps in making informed decisions during this tough time. This … Read more
Perform an on-line search for marriage or divorce advice and youwill probably get a thousands of hits (at least). There is clearlya real need for this advice in our present society. However, how toassess the kernels of grain from the deadwood can be a largeproblem. Marriage does not happen with an operator’s intstructionbook. You must … Read more
They say that there are other fish in the sea, yet for some(such as myself) that isn’t entirely accurate. I mean, there is -but it’s just a matter of finding the right girl you want to bewith and getting up the courage to ask her out. I know what you’rethinking “Gee, I could get any … Read more
A few years ago I was struggling to cope with a relationshipbreak up to the extent that I thought the pain was never going toend. A psychologist friend of mine kept telling me that all I hadto do was let go of the relationship and I would immediately startto heal. The problem was that I … Read more
During the past several months I have seen a large increase inthe number of individuals consulting with me about a possibledivorce. People with long term marriages, short term marriages, andeverything in between. I of course immediately began to suspectthat this increase was primarily due to the economic recession thatwe are experiencing. I began to wonder … Read more
The secret to coping with a painful relationship break up is toacquire a better understand emotions and how they can be controlledand balanced. While people with a high degree of emotional controlstill experience the distressing effects of negative emotions theyhave a distinct advantage when it comes to the duration, intensityand frequency of the pain. Unfortunately … Read more
Nowadays divorces have just become nothing but money mintingbusiness and of course nasty experiences for the couples. A divorcecauses a lot of painful memories and thus, makes the separationphase even more painful. In most of the cases, the lack of a goodlawyer makes the entire phase a bit nastier. But in the other caseswhere good … Read more
The breakdown of a loving relationship is one of the mosttraumatic and stressful periods of anyone’s life. Often after along battle to rescue the relationship the point of no return isreached and both parties realise they have reached the end of theroad. This is often the start of an emotional rollercoaster ride torecovery which can … Read more
Our modern culture reminds us to speak calmly and clearly, andlimit revealing our emotions. In some circumstances, this approachresults in an undercurrent of categorizing a person who reactsloudly and with intense emotion to a situation as a hysteric, as alunatic, or as an unstable individual.This new cultural approach was even evident in our lastPresidential election … Read more